The most intense joy, lies not in the having, but in the desire, delight that never fades, bliss that is eternal, is only yours, when what you most desire, is just out of reach - C.S. Lewis

Many people die with their music still in them. Why is this so? Too often it is because they are always getting ready to live. Before they know it, time runs out - Oliver Wendell Holmes

Mochten we ooit ontdekken waarom we hier zijn, dan blijft de vraag: "Waarom worden we eruit gegooid?" - Bert Keizer

De kunst is om niet helemaal gek te worden, ja, dat is ongeveer wat je als doel voor het leven voor ogen moet houden. De kunst is je niet al te zeer in de war te laten brengen - Hans Crombach

De glans van het leven der mensen, daarvan ben ik overtuigd, is grootser voor hen die niet verblind worden door goddelijke schittering; en de menselijke kameraadschap schijnt meer intiem en tederder te worden door het besef dat wij allen ballingen zijn op een onherbergzame oever - Bertrand Russell

Der Tod ist das Prinzip des Lebens … Das Leben ist um des Todes willen - Novalis

Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom - Bertrand Russell

Give me women, wine, and snuff. Untill I cry out 'hold, enough!'. You may do so sans objection. Till the day of resurrection: For, bless my beard, they aye shall be. My beloved Trinity - John Keats

Een filosoof is een man die bij gebrek aan een vrouw de hele wereld omarmt - Peter Ustinov

Men dient anderen niet zózeer toe te behoren dat men zichzelf niet niet meer toebehoort - Baltasar Gracián

Hoeveel eigendom aan grond hebt u nodig om geen angst te hebben voor de toekomst? (A.u.b. aangeven in vierkante meters). Of vindt u dat angst eerder toeneemt met de grootte van grondeigendom? - Max Frisch

Wij menen een meisje lief te hebben en we hebben in haar, helaas, slechts die ochtendzon lief waarvan haar gelaat de rode gloed weerkaatst - Marcel Proust

Ik vind overgave meestal mooier dan controle - Theo Maassen

Two roads diverged in the wood and I, I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference - Dead Poets Society

And none will hear the postman's knock. Without a quickening of the heart. For who can bear to feel himself forgotten? - W.H. Auden

De basis van elk geloof is het ontkennen van de dood - Redmond O'Hanlon

Misschien moet je iets minder lezen en iets meer leven - Bert Keizer

Retrospectief moet ik het een en ander in mijn verleden wijzigen – Jolanda Zeeman

Richard Dawkins

We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born. The potential people who could have been here in my place but who will in fact never see the light of day outnumber the sand grains of Arabia. Certainly those unborn ghosts include greater poets than Keats, scientists greater than Newton. We know this because the set of possible people allowed by our DNA so massively exceeds the set of actual people. In the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I, in our ordinariness, that are here.


We live on a planet that is all but perfect for our kind of life: not too warm and not too cold, basking in kindly sunshine, softly watered; a gently spinning, green and gold harvest festival of a planet. Yes, and alas, there are deserts and slums; there is starvation and racking misery to be found. But take a look at the competition. Compared with most planets this is paradise, and parts of earth are still paradise by any standards. What are the odds that a planet picked at random would have these complaisant properties? Even the most optimistic calculation would put it at less than one in a million.

Imagine a spaceship full of sleeping explorers, deep-frozen would-be colonists of some distant world. Perhaps the ship is on a forlorn mission to save the species before an unstoppable comet, like the one that killed the dinosaurs, hits the home planet. The voyagers go into the deep-freeze soberly reckoning the odds against their spaceship's ever chancing upon a planet friendly to life. If one in a million planets is suitable at best, and it takes centuries to travel from each star to the next, the spaceship is pathetically unlikely to find a tolerable, let alone safe, haven for its sleeping cargo.


But imagine that the ship's robot pilot turns out to be unthinkably lucky. After millions of years the ship does find a planet capable of sustaining life: a planet of equable temperature, bathed in warm starshine, refreshed by oxygen and water. The passengers, Rip van Winkles, wake stumbling into the light. After a million years of sleep, here is a whole new fertile globe, a lush planet of warm pastures, sparkling streams and waterfalls, a world bountiful with creatures, darting through alien green felicity. Our travellers walk entranced, stupefied, unable to believe their unaccustomed senses or their luck.


The story asks for too much luck; it would never happen. And yet, isn't that what has happened to each one of us? We have woken after hundreds of millions of years asleep, defying astronomical odds. Admittedly we didn't arrive by spaceship, we arrived by being born, and we didn't burst conscious into the world but accumulated awareness gradually through babyhood. The fact that we slowly apprehend our world, rather than suddenly discover it, should not subtract from its wonder.


Of course I am playing tricks with the idea of luck, putting the cart before the horse. It is no accident that our kind of life finds itself on a planet whose temperature, rainfall and everything else are exactly right. If the planet were suitable for another kind of life, it is that other kind of life that would have evolved here. But we as individuals are still hugely blessed. Privileged, and not just privileged to enjoy our planet. More, we are granted the opportunity to understand why our eyes are open, and why they see what they do, in the short time before they close for ever.